Oh you met him too, huh? I mean I didn't meet him but apparently he was bothering a lot of my friends, not just you. But anyway,

[But yes,not important. Even John realizes this.]

With how weird things have been it's possible she hasn't been able to respond? I guess what I'm saying is, try not to be too angry about it until you get the whole story. Because if a friend pulls a dramatic 180 reveal like that out of nowhere? Chances are something is up.